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The morning after the rehearsal dinner, Patrick opens his door to find Emory waiting. Surprised, Patrick asks Emory why he is in Italy. Emory tells him that he came as soon as he could because Maisie and Grant told him that Patrick needed him. Patrick invites him in and fills him in on the drama of the wedding, including his new rival, Palmina. Emory asks if the wedding is still on, and Patrick admits that he does not know. Patrick notices that Emory looks more mature than he did five years ago and realizes just how much he lost by breaking up with him. Patrick tells Emory how confused he is, with the kids growing older and becoming separate, independent people and not the pair he always thought they were. Emory admits that he notices it, too. Patrick tells Emory of his mistakes with the kids on the trip and Emory comforts him. Finally, Patrick admits to Emory that he broke up with him because of his own insecurities about his age and asks if they can get back together. Emory tells him that he does not care about his age and never will, assuring Patrick that he does not even consider them to have been broken up anyway.
Later that day, after Livia and Greg return from their boat ride, Patrick and the rest of the family are summoned to their room. Emory joins Patrick and soon introduces himself to Livia’s family. Greg is happy to see Emory and presumes that Patrick finally took his own advice and won Emory back. Greg and Livia finally sit everyone down and announce that they will wait to get married. Patrick looks at Maisie to see her devastated instead of relieved. Patrick interrupts the silence that follows this announcement by calling out Greg and Livia, saying that they are making a mistake. He pleads with Maisie to see that they genuinely love each other and that just because Livia is joining the family, that does not mean that Sara will be forgotten. Grant steps in to reassure Maisie that everything will be alright, and Livia tells Maisie that she genuinely wants to learn how to be Maisie’s mother, while also respecting Sara. She admits that she and Greg should have included Maisie and Grant more in the process of getting married. She asks if Maisie would like it if they married in Connecticut, and Maisie admits that she would.
When Livia’s mom suggests that at least someone should be married since everything is ready, Maisie suggests that Patrick marry Emory. Patrick resists, but Maisie uses all of his arguments about accepting Livia and finding love against him, saying that they are meant for each other. Patrick pauses and considers how he finally feels happy, sure that he wants to marry Emory because he is confident in himself for the first time in a long time. He asks Emory to marry him in front of his family.
Emory says yes to Patrick, and they go through with the wedding, all of the preparations for Greg and Livia’s ceremony now focused on them. Patrick feels nervous about the rushed wedding and asks Emory if he is sure that he wants to go through with it. Emory tells Patrick that he does not care where and when their wedding happens. He does not care if it is not even meant to be their wedding, he only cares if Patrick is there. The ceremony occurs at sunset on the terrazza, and Greg is Patrick’s best man. In the rush, Patrick is forced to accept Palmina as a stand-in on Emory’s side. Clara acts as the officiant, though they will need to be married again in the US, as Italy does not yet have marriage equality.
Patrick and Emory say their vows. Emory speaks of the challenges of building up Patrick’s life again and creating a new world for the two of them, but he asserts that his heart belongs to Patrick, no matter the challenge. In his vows, Patrick references the dark time in his life after Joe died, and speaks about how Emory helped him to heal and move forward with a new life. When the grooms realize that they do not have rings to finish the ceremony, Palmina steps forward. She uses her scarf, patterned with tigers, to bind their wrists together to demonstrate their union. The grooms kiss, and the family prepares to celebrate.
During the celebrations, Patrick looks around and realizes how happy he is to be surrounded by so many people he loves. Patrick speaks with Greg, curious to know if his brother wishes that the wedding had actually been his. Greg tells Patrick that he was actually thinking of Sara, and he asks Patrick if he thinks that both of them moving on is dishonoring the memories of Sara and Joe. Patrick tells Greg that he thinks their new partnerships actually honor their late loved ones. Next, Patrick speaks with Maisie and Grant, telling them how proud he is of them for how strong they are after losing Sara. He acknowledges how hard it is but tells them that he wants them to be happy going forward in life. Patrick tells them that Sara wants them to be happy and that though he cannot force them to be happy, he can do his best to show them how to be.
Though the music is over, the party still has the space for an hour and Patrick demands a speaker so that they can continue the dancing. When Maisie asks him why he hates Palmina, Patrick denies hating her and compares their relationship to that of siblings who bicker. Patrick explains that lesbians are heroes, particularly for how they cared for gay men during the AIDS crisis. He thinks of gay men and lesbians as family, though they often fight and get on each other’s nerves. When Grant suddenly panics that he and Maisie did not get Patrick and Emory anything as a gift, Patrick assures them that they gave him everything, referencing the wedding and party happening around them.
The party finally ends in the early morning, and Grant asks for hot chocolate. Livia agrees with Grant and offers to join them. He tells Livia that they’ve had the best hot chocolate in the world, in Paris, but Livia asserts that Italian hot chocolate is different, as they put cornstarch in it to thicken the drink. Livia tells Grant that she will have the kitchen make some. Grant spits in his hand and offers to shake, as a deal, and Livia returns the handshake, spit and all. Patrick lauds her commitment, seeing the beginning of a strong relationship.
On the flight back to the US, Patrick and Emory discuss their new future. Both are excited to make their marriage legal back home, and though Patrick jokes about a prenup, Emory takes it seriously. Emory wants to assure Patrick that they can make their relationship work no matter what. Grant interrupts their conversation to let Patrick know that Maisie wants to speak with him. Maisie shows Patrick a letter that Sara wrote and left with Greg for him to give to the woman he married after her death. Greg gave the letter to Maisie, and she lets Patrick read it. In it, Sara asks that Greg’s new wife be patient with Grant and Maisie and tells her that if Greg loves her, so will Maisie, even if it takes time. Patrick is moved by the letter, and Maisie admits that she thinks that she was not brave enough to spend more time with her mother before she died. Patrick assures her that she was brave, and when she asks him to get Livia, he is surprised.
Livia is surprised as well. Patrick takes her seat while she visits Maisie, and he and Greg chat. When Clara comes to speak with them, they make fun of her fling with Gustavo, making her flee back to her seat. Patrick and Greg assure each other that Sara would be proud of both of them before Patrick finally saves Emory from Grant. Emory once again asserts to Patrick that he does not want any of his money but just wants him. Patrick revels in the love that he feels.
The novel skips ahead in time; Patrick has accepted the part in Grease. He is behind stage after his show and one of the stage managers hands him an envelope. He puts it in his bag and walks out of the theater, surprised to see his entire family, and Palmina, there to wish him a happy birthday. Greg and Livia took Maisie and Grant out of school to come and watch Patrick in the show and spend the night in the city. Patrick’s family says goodbye, and as Patrick walks away, Emory calls him. Emory asks if he got his birthday present. Patrick remembers it, takes it out of his bag, and opens it to find a key. Emory tells him that he did not know what to get him for his birthday, so he bought him a house in Palm Springs. Patrick is excited to have a place to bring his family together.
While the central question of the novel has been whether or not Greg and Livia will get married, Rowley employs a plot twist during the falling action. When Greg and Livia postpone the wedding, everyone is shocked, and Maisie and Grant suggest that Emory and Patrick be married instead. Two plotlines are therefore resolved at once, as Emory and Patrick commit to each other while Greg and Livia resolve to marry with the children more included. When Emory arrives, Patrick is forced to confront his insecurities about his age. He realizes that he loves Emory and only broke up with him because of his own belief that Emory would leave him. Patrick understands that if he does not want to be lonely, he must take the risk and accept how Emory feels about him. When they are married, it dawns on Patrick that they are “an unlikely pair that worked because they each let the other be exactly who they were” (283). Emory and Patrick love each other for who they are and do not try to change the other. This highlights The Influence of Love on Self-Perception. Both men love each other for who the other is. This helps instill within Patrick and Emory a sense of confidence that allows them to be their best person.
During the wedding, Rowley also resolves the conflict regarding the family’s grief over Sara. Patrick wants to instill in Grant and Maisie a belief that they will be fine and that it is good that they are ready to have Livia as a mother: “The thing of it is, so much air had escaped from our lives. Your mother kept us all afloat. But I look around me tonight, and I think we did a good job patching the leak” (278). This metaphor about buoyancy and leaking air highlights the stakes of healing, as it implies that people can sink after loss. Patrick recognizes the pain that they all feel over the loss of Sara, but he also makes them look around to all of the people, old and new, who love them and want them to be happy. Patrick acknowledges The Persistence of Grief but encourages the children not to let it stop them from finding happiness. Patrick wants Grant and Maisie to realize that they are in a better place than they were five years prior and that though they love their mother and her memory, they no longer need to protect it so fiercely.
By the end of The Guncle Abroad, Patrick proves to be a dynamic character in more than one way. He finally accepts Emory’s love into his life and stops worrying about how his age will impact their relationship. He also accepts his aging, and feels ready to tackle the next stage of his life with confidence. Patrick goes to Broadway, with a role in a Grease revival, and as he gets ready for the show, he reflects that “[h]e and his school castmates used to laugh in horror at how they might one day look given the ravages of time, but they had no way of knowing how that horror might one day be pride” (296). Patrick remembers his time as a younger actor, scared of aging and how it might make him look. Now, however, he realizes that what he once feared is actually a gift. He looks at himself and in the signs of age, he sees his story and a face that made it through it all. Patrick finally confronts The Tension of Aging and releases it by accepting it. This creates a parallel with Maisie and Grant’s journey: Life will change, but they learn to accept and adapt to these changes rather than fighting against them.
By Steven Rowley