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Katherine Center

Hello Stranger: A Novel

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2023

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Themes

Resilience Through Overcoming Challenges

Content Warning: This guide section references medical conditions and surgery, the loss of a parent, and mental health conditions.

When Sadie loses the ability to recognize faces due to prosopagnosia, the diagnosis precipitates a series of emotional, personal, and professional setbacks. However, this season isn't the first time Sadie has experienced hardship. After her mother’s death and her father’s abrupt remarriage, Sadie’s stepsister bullied her, eventually leading to her temporary removal from the household when she was sent away to boarding school. As a result, adult Sadie still struggles with her identity and proving her worth to her family and friends. Portrait painting relies on capturing the unique details of a person’s face, and Sadie’s prosopagnosia makes this impossible. Facing the loss of her identity and purpose, as her art is not just a job but an extension of who she is, Sadie is pushed to her limits emotionally and physically and wonders if she’ll ever experience joy again.

Aside from fearing the loss of her passion, Sadie fears being seen as weak or incapable. However, through wrestling with this fear and doubt, Sadie slowly develops a new sense of tenacity. Instead of giving up, she confronts the reality of her condition and finds new ways to exist in the world, learning to see beyond faces and embrace other forms of creative expression. Through Dr. Nicole’s help and Sue and Joe’s support, Sadie develops fortitude. She learns that resilience is a skill she must cultivate as she faces one challenge after another, each obstacle pushing her toward greater strength and self-understanding. Sadie’s emotional resilience helps her navigate relationships, particularly with her estranged family members and romantic interests. Her relationship with her stepsister, Parker, who belittles and undermines her, is incredibly challenging. Parker’s toxic behavior is a source of emotional pain for Sadie, exacerbating her feelings of isolation. However, rather than allow Parker’s cruelty to define her, Sadie learns to assert herself and establish boundaries. This growth in emotional strength is critical to developing her resilience, as it shows her ability to rise above negativity and maintain her sense of self-worth despite others’ attempts to diminish her through bullying or criticism.

Through Sadie’s character, Center asserts that resilience is not an inherent trait but rather something developed through facing life’s challenges head-on. Sadie grows as a person as she learns to adapt to her new reality, rebuild her confidence, and find new ways to thrive. She says, “Maybe disappointments could turn out to be blessings” (138). Whether through her art, family dynamics, or relationships, Sadie’s story illustrates that resilience is born from adversity. Through losing what she thought defined her, Sadie discovers a deeper, more authentic version of herself. The novel highlights the transformative power of determination and the importance of facing life’s difficulties with courage and an open heart.

Exploring Identity Beyond External Appearances

Center’s story examines how much human understanding of oneself and others is tied to physical appearances and challenges this superficiality. Through Sadie’s struggle with recognizing faces, she must explore identity more complexly, focusing on inner qualities, emotional connections, and negative self-perception. Sadie’s inability to recognize faces is the primary vehicle for the novel’s investigation into how people construct identity. As a portrait artist, Sadie prides herself on her ability to capture the essence of individuals through their faces: “[…] I can never look at a face for the first time without mentally assessing it for its shapes and structure and most compelling features […]” (9). Even when not painting, she judges others’ faces as ideal or supremely proportionate. The sudden onset of prosopagnosia destabilizes her, not only professionally but also personally, as she must rely on her other senses to distinguish between people. Her struggle with face blindness mirrors a deeper challenge within Sadie of how she “sees" people and how she must reconstruct her sense of self when her medical condition strips the most recognizable and defining features away.

Sadie’s condition means navigating the world without the familiar appearance cues, forcing her to redefine how she perceives and interacts with others. In a literal sense, she must rely on non-visual cues to identify people, such as voices, mannerisms, and emotions. This shift in perception becomes a metaphor for moving beyond surface-level judgments based on looks. The people in Sadie’s life, especially Joe (who the novel later reveals is Dr. Addison), become more meaningful to her as she learns to connect with them emotionally first. The discrepancy between how Sadie perceives him and who he is underscores the novel’s argument that external appearances often cloud proper understanding. Moreover, she learns that she misjudges people based on their appearance, as exemplified by her assuming “Busty McGee,” Dr. Michaux, sleeps around because she has large breasts. Sadie realizes that appearances can be misleading or incomplete, and she projects certain beliefs about others based solely on their external appearance, not on their worth as humans. 

Moreover, the novel explores Sadie’s identity crisis as she encounters her new reality. Seeing faces as mixed-up jigsaw puzzle pieces symbolizes Sadie’s fractured identity as she struggles to reconcile her past self with her present self, whose professional and personal identity are crumbling. The mirror scenes, where Sadie can’t see her reflection, further symbolize her internal struggle with identity. She expresses her fear, “No matter how alone you ever are in life, you always have yourself, right? You always have that goofy, imperfect face […]” (45). Her face, once a clear symbol of who she was, and her life becomes a puzzle, and she cannot piece it together. Only when she learns to look beyond the physical and embraces her new circumstances does she begin to rediscover her sense of self. Thus, Center uses prosopagnosia as a lens to challenge and critique the reliance on external appearances as identity markers. Sadie’s epiphany comes when she recognizes that identity, of both self and others, lies beneath the surface. In a world where external appearances are idolized, Sadie resolves to look deeper and form connections based on emotional depth and authenticity rather than surface-level assumptions, which are often entirely misguided.

Overcoming Emotional Obstacles in Relationships

Through Sadie’s interactions with friends and her strained familial relationships, Center underscores how emotional barriers such as fear, insecurity, miscommunication, and past trauma can impede the formation of meaningful relationships. In doing so, she underscores the necessity of addressing emotional roadblocks to build greater trust and intimacy and heal from past hurt. Sadie’s relationship with her father and stepmother is a significant obstacle for Sadie, rooted in her unresolved past trauma. Her family’s rigid perception of her identity, coupled with unsettled conflicts from childhood, creates an emotional distance between them that prevents peaceful reconciliation. This familial tension around long-held emotional wounds distorts Sadie’s view of relationships and stunts her ability to connect with others. Overcoming these emotional obstacles requires Sadie to address her family dynamics by asserting her sense of identity, thus breaking free from the emotional constraints her past has imposed.

Just as she struggles to physically see people for who they are, Sadie cannot fully open herself to emotional vulnerability in relationships. This emotional barrier is most apparent in her interactions with Joe, who wants to become a safe and steady figure in her life. As she learns to rely on non-visual cues to connect with others, she must also address the fears and insecurities that prevent her from forging authentic emotional bonds. Sadie’s romantic relationship also tests her resolve to deal with conflict. Her journey toward understanding her feelings and navigating the complications of her love life forces her to confront her fears of rejection. She worries, “I was already doubling down on never telling him about that. The more appealing he became, the more he did not need to know how messed up my life was” (174). Through getting to know Joe, Sadie learns that true connection requires honesty and trust, even when the future is uncertain. As Sadie becomes more open and emotionally available, she grows stronger, knowing that resilience in relationships is not about avoiding hurt but being brave enough to face it.

One of Sadie’s most significant struggles is her deep-seated fear of exposure to her weaknesses, which manifests in her refusal to ask for help and her tendency to hide her emotional struggles. The novel's emotional climax comes when Sadie no longer hides her prosopagnosia and asks people for help when she can’t recognize their faces. The story demonstrates that forging lasting relationships requires confronting one’s fears, embracing vulnerability, and relinquishing unrealistic expectations in favor of genuine connection. She concludes, “It takes a certain kind of courage to be brave in love. A courage you can only get better at through practice” (306). Sadie’s character highlights the importance of emotional self-awareness as a prerequisite for building healthy and fulfilling relationships. By working through her emotional barriers and overcoming past and present obstacles, Sadie finds peace within herself and her family and a fulfilling relationship with Joe.

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