Almost a Woman

Esmeralda and her family must deal with prejudice as they adjust to their new life in New York, made worse by a language barrier and by needing to go on welfare. How does Esmeralda react to this prejudice? Does it begin to change the way she sees herself and her family, and if so, how?

The Santiago household is a chaotic place, with 11 children, two adults, and various relatives passing through. How does this impact Esmeralda, and does this begin to affect her relationship with her family?

Mami and Esmeralda have the closest bond in the book, full of highs and lows. What are some of the best parts of their relationship, and what are some of the worst? Do these different sides to the relationship balance each other out, or is it overall healthy or codependent?

Esmeralda is drawn to people who come from similar backgrounds of being first- or second-generation immigrants to the United States. Why does Esmeralda gravitate to these individuals?

Esmeralda loves theater, performance, and dance, but she eventually gives up on these pursuits to settle into a more practical life. Was this the right decision? Why, or why not?

Papi is often mentioned in the memoir, though he never comes to visit Esmeralda and only infrequently writes. Why does Papi continue to have such an influence over Esmeralda, even being so far away? How does his absence impact her life?

Esmeralda struggles to find her place in her family, especially as she grows older. Why is it so difficult for Esmeralda to be stuck in that place of “almost” being a woman? How does this affect her relationship with her family, and Mami in particular?

Esmeralda faces difficulty with feeling not Puerto Rican enough, not American enough. Why is it so hard for Esmeralda to find her place in the world?